Managing Death.

“There is more to life than increasing its speed.” Mahatma Gandhi.

“Ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life. Hurry is the great enemy of the spiritual life.” Dallas Willard. (I first heard this in 2016 from a Singaporean who had learnt from Willard).

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Selected resources: death of different types…

Books you might like…

Data / Tech

Faith

  • [Protestant Christianity] Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges. 2008. The most loving place in town: A modern-day parable for the church.

Finance

  • Joris Luyendijk. 2015. Swimming with sharks : my journey into the world of bankers. London : Guardian Books.
  • Edwin Lim, Kaiwen Leong & Edward H. Choi. 2012. The ultimate banker : getting in and rising to the top of the banking industry. Singapore : Aktive Learning.

Europe / Justice

  • [policing novel] Eva Dolan. 2014. Long way home. London : Harvill Secker.
  • [criminal justice novel] Phil Redmond. 2017. Highbridge. London : Arrow Books.
  • [criminal justice novel] David Thorne. 2015. East of innocence. London : Corvus.
  • [criminal justice novel / London before 1990s] David Gemmell. 2018. White knight/black swan. London : Gollancz. (Originally published: as by Ross Harding. London: Arrow, 1993).
  • [realistic detective novel written by former Norwegian policeman; also a social commentary] Jørn Lier Horst. 2018. The Katharina Code. London: Michael Joseph, an imprint of Penguin Books.

Mother’s Day / 母亲节 2019

Self Reminder – May I be convicted and empowered to respect, cherish, love, and treasure my mother even in her old age.

Listen to your father who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.

Proverbs 23:22 (English Standard Version)

你 要 听 从 生 你 的 父 亲 ; 你 母 亲 老 了 , 也 不 可 藐 视 他 。

Proverbs 23:22 (简体中文和合本 / CUV Simplified)

Vulgarity – Christian views

Vulgarity

A vulgar remark or act. [Synonyms: rudeness, crudity, indecency, indelicacy, offensiveness, suggestiveness, bawdiness, ribaldry, obscenity, lewdness, salaciousness, licentiousness, depravity, sordidness, smuttiness, dirtiness, filthiness, smut, dirt, filth, pornography]

Vulgarity. (accessed 7 Jun 2019). https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/vulgarity.

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.

Proverbs 18:21 – English Standard Version

Lexicon
Life
וְ֭חַיִּים (wə·ḥay·yîm)
Conjunctive waw | Noun – masculine plural
Strong’s Hebrew 2416: Alive, raw, fresh, strong, life

and death
מָ֣וֶת (mā·weṯ)
Noun – masculine singular
Strong’s Hebrew 4194: Death, the dead, their place, state, pestilence, ruin

Proverbs 18:21. (accessed 7 Jun 2019). https://biblehub.com/proverbs/18-21.htm.

Related verse Matthew 12: 36 [from Pulpit Commentary]

“But I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment.

New American Standard Bible

But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.

King James Bible

Matthew 12:36. (accessed 7 Jun 2019). https://biblehub.com/matthew/12-36.htm.

See also James 3.

…curse words tend to be powerful indeed, because to linguistically reduce something or someone to the level of biological functions (and their resultant products) is almost always an act of contempt. And contempt is toxic…

Contempt is a mixture of anger and disgust, expressed from a position of superiority. It denigrates, devalues, and dismisses. It’s not hard to understand why even subtle levels of contempt are damaging—not only in marriages but in all human interaction…

Christians have a unique mandate to avoid profanity… we are called to live with a servant’s heart, affirming the dignity of every human and the sacredness of existence…

Theologian John Stackhouse points out that our primary vocation as Christ followers is not to “stay pure,” but rather to cultivate shalom…

But in every case, our words should reflect our calling to participate in hallowing, rather than profaning, the world. If it’s truly strong language that we’re after—language with power and impact—what could be stronger than the language we use to cultivate shalom?

What The …? (Cussing, Contempt and the Orthodontist). Carolyn Arends. (April 16, 2013, 7:10 am). https://carolynarends.com/what-the-cussing-contempt-and-the-orthodontist/.

Text Analysis: Book of Mormon

**Version 3 – 28 Aug 2019**

Aim

This post recounts three views from one chapter of Paul C. Gutjahr’s book regarding how the Book of Mormon originated. His book is entitled, The Book of Mormon: A Biography (Princeton University Press, 2012). Altogether, I read the following: Prologue; Chapters 1 to 4; Epilogue; and a few end notes. [See Reference b. to learn more about the author.]

Additionally, I refer to two reviews in order to support the book as an objective and balanced piece of work.

What is Mormonism and the Book of Mormon?

In context, the Book of Mormon is deemed a key religious text by the Mormons (also called Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or LDS). Arguably, it is “a religion derived from Christianity that traces its origins to Joseph Smith.” He asserted in the 19th century that the Protestant Christian church needed to be restored to its original state as envisioned by Jesus. [References c. and d.]

Chapter 2 – the veracity / truthfulness of the Book of Mormon

Revelatory or Supernaturalist school – Smith truly received physical documents from the supreme Deity (who Catholics and Protestants call God or LORD) and properly translated the message.

Plagiarist school – This includes works like Eber D. Howe’s <Mormonism Unvailed>. This highlighted historical imprecisions (mismatches) between the timing of horses and steel appearing in the Americas (on which the Book of Mormon was supported). Further, Stanford University academics headed by Matthew L. Jockers ran linguistic computer modeling on the Book of Mormon. They deduced that the Book of Mormon was created by “multiple, nineteenth century authors” with “…Rigdon as a unifying force.” [Sidney Rigdon was a Baptist minister who converted to Mormonism; Protestant Christianity considers Baptists a subset denomination.] Gutjahr wrote that Joseph Smith’s writing was excluded since they assessed there were no authenticated samples. [From Chapter 1, p.30-32, Gutjahr wrote that John Gilbert acted as the main punctuator for the Book of Mormon. He was given the freedom to do so because Smith chose not to be involved with the printing. Gilbert was a New York based printer. See Reference e.]

Naturalist – The Book of Mormon originated from Smith’s creative invention. He then led others to believe it. One proponent of this was a former Mormon (ex-Latter Day Saints follower, Fawn Brodie, who is family to the Mormon leadership).

Two book reviews

1. Justin Moyer rates the book as objective since ‘nonpartisan’ takes ‘fair’ and ‘just’ as synonyms. [See definition – ‘not biased or partisan, especially towards any particular political group’ from https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/non-partisan, accessed 21 May 2019]

Unlike Mormon exposés such as Jon Krakauer’s “Under the Banner of Heaven,” Gutjahr’s slim volume doesn’t delve much into polygamy or baptism of the dead, controversial practices not found in Smith’s original text. While some of Gutjahr’s claims stretch credulity — does the musical comedy “Book of Mormon” by the creators of “South Park” really prove that the book has “finally escaped the confines of strictly religious discourse”? — it’s refreshing to read a nonpartisan book about Mormonism.

“The Book of Mormon: A Biography” by Paul C. Gutjahr. Justin Moyer. June 1, 2012. The Washington Post, US.

2. Wade Clark Roof noted that:

Three schools of thought have developed about the book’s origin: 1) Joseph Smith Jr. translated the text from plates of gold; 2) Joseph (as he was called by his followers) plagiarized the book from other sources; and 3) Joseph was simply a gifted storyteller with an amazing imagination and a strong sense of mission. Proclaiming himself to be God’s prophet, sent to Earth to restore a purer form of Christianity, Joseph added teachings not found in the text that favored polygamy, baptism of the dead, and the plurality of Gods. These newer revelations set Mormons further apart from other Christians and divided Mormons themselves, splitting the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints from those who chose to follow Brigham Young westward.

Almost from the beginning, disputes arose over corrections and revisions to the text; the Reorganized Latter Day Saints now produce and control their own official version…

[cited as professor of religion and society at the University of California, Santa Barbara] Wade Clark Roof. (updated 14 Jun 2017). The Book of Mormon: a Biography. https://psmag.com/social-justice/the-book-of-mormon-a-biography-42057. Pacific Standard. The Social Justice Foundation 801 Garden Street, Suite 101, Santa Barbara, California, 93101, US. [See Reference f.]

References / Related

a. Before this, I finished The Bishop’s Wife, a 2014 mystery novel by Mette Ivie Harrison. [Harrison believes in the Book of Mormon]. It proved a good read, regardless of your belief towards Mormonism. See the review – Mystery in a Mormon Community. Janet Maslin. Dec. 22, 2014. https://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/23/arts/the-bishops-wife-a-mormon-mystery-by-mette-ivie-harrison.html. The New York Times, US.

b. [My training is in American Studies, so I favor approaches which are highly interdisciplinary in nature. My specialized field of research is the history of publishing and literacy in the United States. More commonly, I work in the area which has come to be called history of the book studies, and I work primarily in the North American context. I am interested in how different forms of writing influence a vast array of cultural practices from religious preaching to proper etiquette at meals. I have written extensively on the production of the English Bible in America. I have also edited a collection of essays on typography and textual interpretation and an anthology on nineteenth century American popular literature.] Paul Gutjahr. Ruth Halls Professor, English. Associate Dean for Arts & Humanities and Undergraduate Education. https://english.indiana.edu/about/faculty/gutjahr-paul.html. Department of English, Indiana University. Bloomington, US.

c. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. (accessed 28 Aug 2019). https://www.patheos.com/library/mormonism.

d. [Book of Mormon, work accepted as holy scripture, in addition to the Bible, in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and other Mormon churches. It was first published in 1830 in Palmyra, New York, and was thereafter widely reprinted and translated. Mormons hold that it is a divinely inspired work revealed to and translated by the founder of their religion, Joseph Smith.] The Editors of Encyclopaedia Britannica. (updated Sep 11, 2015). Book of Mormonhttps://www.britannica.com/topic/Book-of-Mormon. Encyclopædia Britannica. Encyclopædia Britannica, inc.

e.

…Our results indicate that likely nineteenth century contributors were Solomon Spalding, a writer of historical fantasies; Sidney Rigdon, an eloquent but perhaps unstable preacher; and Oliver Cowdery, a schoolteacher with editing experience. Our findings support the hypothesis that Rigdon was the main architect of the Book of Mormon and are consistent with historical evidence suggesting that he fabricated the book by adding theology to the unpublished writings of Spalding (then deceased).

Matthew L. Jockers, Daniela M. Witten, Craig S. Criddle, Reassessing authorship of the Book of Mormon using delta and nearest shrunken centroid classification, Literary and Linguistic Computing, Volume 23, Issue 4, December 2008, Pages 465–491, https://doi.org/10.1093/llc/fqn040. (accessed 22 May 2019). Oxford University Press.

f.

Mormons believe that Joseph Smith had a vision in 1820 in which he saw God and Jesus (“first vision” depicted in a sculpture above). According to this story, they told him that all religions existing at the time were abominations. However, Smith told as many as 10 versions of the story and many had serious contradictions. Earlier versions featured only Jesus or angels appearing to Smith. That progressed into a host of angels, then it evolved to God appearing to Smith in a pillar of fire. The last known version, the one in which he saw both God and Jesus, is the version contained in the Mormon book of scriptures known as the Pearl of Great Price and is the version taught both to the Latter-day Saint faithful and those considering converting to the faith. The other versions are never mentioned, though they are available on a Church-run website.

Joseph Nelson. (8 Apr 2015). 10 Dark Secrets Of Mormon History. https://listverse.com/2015/04/08/10-dark-secrets-of-mormon-history/.

g. Mormonism parallels Chinese Taoism (religion, not the philosophy), where humans can become deities after accumulating merit or completing adequate tasks.

Mormons claim that God the Father was once a man and that he then progressed to godhood (that is, he is a now-exalted, immortal man with a flesh-and-bone body).

Difference between Mormonism and Biblical Christianity. August 31, 2010 | Justin Taylor. https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/justin-taylor/an-faq-on-the-difference-between-mormonism-and-biblical-christianity/. The Gospel Coalition (US edition).

h.

The following article is four pages (129-132) out of the official Mormon Church manual Achieving a Celestial Marriage Student Manual. These four pages give an excellent explanation of the world view of Mormonism and the central theme of the importance of Mormon temples within Mormon theology. We quote this information to show the clearly non-Christian nature of Mormonism. This article is copied without commentary and is allowable under the “Fair Use” clause of the copy write code. We invite the reader to examine the original document for context and accuracy…

“God himself was once as we are now, and is an exalted man, and sits enthroned in yonder heavens! That is the great secret. If the veil were rent today, and the great God who holds this world in its orbit and who upholds all worlds and all things by his power was to make himself visible,—I say, if you were to see him today, you would see him like a man in form—like yourselves in all the person, image, and very form as a man; for Adam was created in the very fashion, image and likeness of God and received instruction from, and walked, talked and conversed with him, as one man talks and communes with another.” (Smith, Teachings, p. 345.)…

How Does Mormonism Differ From Christianity? Keith. Aug 10, 2011. http://www.evidenceministries.org/2011/08/what-is-the-significance-of-mormon-temples-within-mormon-theology/. Evidence Ministries
P.O. Box 690371, San Antonio, Texas 78269, US.

i. [Linked to Evidence Ministries above] Interview with Becky Walker – 1. http://blog.mrm.org/2011/11/interview-with-becky-walker-1/. November 7, 2011. Bill McKeever.

j. [Video/Audio with transcript] Are Mormons Christians? https://illbehonest.com/Are-Mormons-Christians-Tim-Conway. Tim Conway. Grace Community Church. July 27, 2012.

k. Protestant Christian biblical verses identifying the non-human, and unique nature of God, English Standard Version (ESV).

Isaiah 44 : 6 – Thus says the LORD, the King of Israel and his Redeemer, the LORD of hosts: “I am the first and I am the last; besides me there is no god.

Isaiah 46 : 9 – remember the former things of old; for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me,

1 Corinthians 8 : 6 – yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.

l. [The Salamander Society is a volunteer effort, run by former members of the LDS (“Mormon”) Church. The site is owned and published by Cricket.] Frequently Asked Questions. (no date / accessed 22 May 2019). http://www.salamandersociety.com/FAQ/.

m. [Interview] Fawn Brodie – author of “No Man Knows My History”. (no date / accessed 22 May 2019). http://www.salamandersociety.com/interviews/fawnbrodie/.

n. The Mormon Excommunication of Fawn Brodie: Why Banishing the Famous Biographer Reverberates 65 Years. July 30, 2012. James Reston Jr. http://www.washingtonindependentreviewofbooks.com/index.php/features/the-mormon-excommunication-of-fawn-brodie-why-banishing-the-famous-biograph. Washington Independent Review of Books.

o. Mormons at a glance. (Last updated 2009-10-02). http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/mormon/ataglance/glance.shtml#more. UK.

p. [Until a few decades ago, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints taught that they “shall be a white and a delightsome people,” a phrase taken from the Book of Mormon. Until the 1970s, the LDS Church also restricted black members’ participation in important rituals and prohibited black men from becoming priests, despite evidence that they had participated more fully in the earliest years of the Church.] Emma Green. (18 Sep 2017). When Mormons Aspired to Be a ‘White and Delightsome’ People. https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2017/09/mormons-race-max-perry-mueller/539994/.

q. [12 results] Special Broadcasting Service Corporation. (accessed 28 Aug 2019). Mormonism. https://www.sbs.com.au/news/subject/mormonism. Sydney/Melbourne, Australia.

Pursuing Gentleness

It is surprising that I found this becoming the learning point instead for me today. But I guess I should hardly be surprised by these miracles any more.

English Standard Version New American Standard Version
So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil,
– 2 Timothy 2:22-24
Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. But refuse foolish and ignorant speculations, knowing that they produce quarrels. The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged,
– 2 Timothy 2:22-24
But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness.
– 1 Timothy 6:11
But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.
– 1 Timothy 6:11

Note the similar words “kind” and “gentleness” in the two letters sent to Timothy (hence the title of the books in the Bible).

kind
ἤπιον (ēpion)
Adjective – Accusative Masculine Singular
Strong’s Greek 2261: Placid, gentle, mild. Probably from epos; properly, affable, i.e. Mild or kind.

2 Timothy 2:24. (accessed 11 Apr 2019). https://biblehub.com/2_timothy/2-24.htm.

[and] gentleness.
πραϋπαθίαν (praupathian)
Noun – Accusative Feminine Singular
Strong’s Greek 4240: Mildness, gentleness. From praus; mildness, i.e. humility…

Ellicott’s Commentary for English Readers

Meekness.–The German “sanftmuth”–the meekness of heart and feeling with which a Christian acts towards his enemies. His conduct who “when he was reviled, reviled not again” best exemplifies this virtue… [The King James Version renders ‘gentleness’ as ‘meekness’]

1 Timothy 6:11. (accessed 11 Apr 2019). https://biblehub.com/1_timothy/6-11.htm.

Prautēs, conjugated from the Greek of praus, is also found to describe the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:23. It is often translated as ‘gentleness’ or ‘meekness’. [However, it seems strange that the Thayer and Smith “Greek Lexicon entry for Praus” lists the term to be found only in Matthew 5:5; Matthew 21:5; 1 Peter 3:4 (https://www.biblestudytools.com/lexicons/greek/kjv/praus.html). The Thayer and Smith. “Greek Lexicon entry for Prautes” lists the term to be found only in James 1:21; James 3:13; 1 Peter 3:15 (https://www.biblestudytools.com/lexicons/greek/kjv/prautes.html). Both refer to the King James Version]

Other references

Luther: How he became convicted

But Luther was tormented by fears and doubts. “I was myself more than once driven to the very abyss of despair so that I wished I had never been created. Love God? I hated him!”

“I don’t understand it!” replied the longsuffering Johann when Luther reported this latest line of reasoning to him. He reminded Luther that Christ died to remit our sins. However, Luther was so afraid of Christ, the judge, that he could not turn to him for relief.

Dean Graves. (revised Jun 2007 / published 28 Apr 2010). Johann von Staupitz, Luther’s Confessor. https://www.christianity.com/church/church-history/timeline/1501-1600/johann-von-staupitz-luthers-confessor-11629932.html.

German Martin Luther acted as one of the major leaders in the Protestant movement against Roman Catholicism.

Yet, before he became this spiritual giant and icon, he too met with great turmoil. His sin troubled him greatly (as you see from above) and this led to constant confession. Such words in turn troubled Johann von Staupitz, who mentored Luther from 1508 onwards (Johann von Staupitz. 24 Dec 2018. Encyclopædia Britannica).

The accounts differ in detail but essentially Staupitz assigned him to teach the Bible. In doing so, the desired result came (via the New Testament books of Romans and Galatians).

In other words, he devised a plan to get Luther’s mind off himself by involving him in ministry to others. It worked. While preparing his lectures on the Book of Galatians, Luther suddenly saw, as if for the first time, that God’s grace trumps all our sins. His studies convinced him that the just are saved by grace through faith alone. That insight changed his life. It altered the course of Western history as well.

Correcting Distorted Images of God. (no date). https://www.focusonthefamily.com/family-q-and-a/faith/correcting-distorted-images-of-god. Focus on the Family.

Additional Reference

Johann von Staupitz was 12th iconic individual in Lutheran Reformation. (5 Aug 2017). http://www.observertoday.com/life/religion/2017/08/johann-von-staupitz-was-12th-iconic-individual-in-lutheran-reformation/. Observer Today. Dunkirk, New York. The Nutting Company.

Why I believe still

…I blessed the Most High, and praised and honored him who lives forever, for his dominion is an everlasting dominion, and his kingdom endures from generation to generation; all the inhabitants of the earth are accounted as nothing, and he does according to his will among the host of heaven and among the inhabitants of the earth; and none can stay his hand or say to him, “What have you done?”

“I” refers to Nebuchadnezzar, king of the ancient Babylonian empire. Daniel (Old Testament, Bible) 4:34b -35, English Standard Version.

I am someone who had once or more despised, detested and thus hated his Creator and Master.

Why do I still believe?

Why do I still hold on to the faith?

Because it’s true; it is a true faith. It is a true faith because God inserted and continues to insert his thought and word at very exact moments of my existence. And I had already come to conclude –

There is no coincidence: only God’s providence. 

References

  • …if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved – Romans (New Testament, Bible) 10:9, New American Standard. Lord = κύριος (kurios), from kuros (authority) = lord, master [Strong’s Concordance] – Biblehub.
  • James MacDonald. (2015). Lord, change my attitude: before it’s too late. Moody Publishers. Chicago.
  • Malachi 1: 1-5 (Old Testament, Bible)

Ill but at peace – Wayne Grudem (2015)

I first encountered Christianity through a tiny bible cover King James Bible [Gideons – New Testament with the Old Testament (Psalms and Proverbs)]. It was a gift.

Other books followed but Philip Yancey’s Disappointment with God left a deeper impression. I can’t remember the version, but it had a green cover. The focus was on the Old Testament bible book of Job (it describes a blameless man who suffers).

Another gift was Timothy Keller’s Walking with God through Pain and Suffering, probably first edition (2013).

So what gives?

Suffering is inevitable – whether you believe in God or not. Yet, how can we react and respond?

US theologian Wayne Grudem disclosed his thoughts through a letter published on 22 Dec 2015 – I Have Parkinson’s and I Am at Peace – https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/i-have-parkinsons-and-i-am-at-peace. [At the time of access, both Mozilla Firefox and Avast Secure Browser tells me that the website provides a ‘secure connection’.]

In the week before the letter, Grudem was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, a disease without cure. Others who have it include Canadian actor Michael J. Fox. I was informed by the article that renowned evangelist Billy Graham had it. A brief search revealed Janet Reno, first female US attorney general, was afflicted; and memory reminded me that former Singaporean political giant Lee Kuan Yew suffered from it as well. But enough of trivia…

Grudem’s response? The Bible.

We both feel a deep peace from the Lord about this. King David said to the Lord, “My times are in your hand” (Psalm 31:15), and I truly feel that way.

Parkinson’s usually does not shorten a person’s life expectancy very much, but in any case, I’m happy to live as long as the Lord wills that I live, and to keep on being productive for as long as he enables me to do so. “In your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them” (Psalm 139:16)…

“We do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison” (2 Corinthians 4:16–17). Parkinson’s is a “light momentary affliction” in the light of eternity.

“Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever” (Psalm 73:25–26). My personal fellowship with God is far more precious than any measure of physical health, and I deeply and truly feel that right now.

A similar theme was discussed in 7 Jul 1985 – Job: Reverent in Suffering (sermon) – https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/job-reverent-in-suffering.

1. Let us join with Job and affirm with all our hearts the absolute sovereignty of God.
Let us say with the psalmist, “Our God is in the heavens; he does whatever he pleases” (Psalm 115:3) Let us say with Daniel, “He does according to his will in the host of heaven and among the inhabitants of the earth; and none can stay his hand or say to him, ‘What doest thou?’” (Daniel 4:35). Let us make the absolute sovereignty of God the rock on which we build our lives and our church…

3. Trust in the goodness of God, and let him be your treasure and your joy.
Even if God had let Satan take Job’s life, we know what Job would have said. He would have said Psalm 63:3: “The steadfast love of the Lord is better than life.”

When your calamity comes, may the Lord give you the grace to affirm the sovereignty of God, let your tears flow freely, and let God himself be your treasure and your joy.

Related

Sabbath — rest

When I was a boy, the Sabbath lasted from sundown on Saturday to sundown on Sunday, and I remember how we boys used to shout when the Sabbath was over. It was the worst day in the week to us. I believe it can be made the brightest day in the week. Every child ought to be reared so that he shall be able to say, with a friend, that he would rather have the other six days weeded out of his memory than the Sabbath of his childhood.

“Sabbath” means “rest,” and the meaning of the word gives a hint as to the true way to observe the day. God rested after creation, and ordained the Sabbath as a rest for man. “Remember the rest-day to keep it holy.” It is the day when the body may be refreshed and strengthened after six days of labor, and the soul drawn into closer fellowship with its Maker…

On the other hand, we should jealously guard against a loose way of keeping the Sabbath. Already in many cities the day is profaned openly. Sunday newspapers are issued wholesale, not only turning the minds of readers away from godly things, and thus acting as a positive barrier in the way of religion, but also keeping newsboys away from Sunday school to sell papers, and keeping trains running in order that they may be distributed…

We must not think that the Sabbath is just for the sake of being able to attend meetings… some people that think they must spend the whole day at meetings or in private devotions. The result is that at nightfall they are tired out, and the day has brought them no rest. The number of church services attended ought to be measured by the person’s ability to enjoy them, and get good from them, without being wearied. Attending meetings is not the only way to observe the Sabbath. In Lev. 23:3 the Israelites were commanded to keep it in their dwellings as well as in holy convocation. The home, that centre of so great influence over the life and character of people, ought to be made the scene of true Sabbath observance…

“If thou turn away thy foot from the sabbath, from doing thy pleasure on my holy day; and call the sabbath a delight, the holy of the LORD, honourable; and shalt honour him, not doing thine own ways, nor finding thine own pleasure, nor speaking thine own words: [‘thine own’ as contrasted with what God enjoins], Then shalt thou delight thyself in the LORD; and I will cause thee to ride upon the high places of the earth, and feed thee with the heritage of Jacob thy father: for the mouth of the LORD hath spoken it” Isaiah 58:13-14.

D. L. Moody. (1899). How Shall We Spend the Sabbath? https://www.wholesomewords.org/etexts/moody/sabbath.html. Wholesome Words.

The reason that so many people feel it as a burden is partly that we have so much leisure, we don’t feel the need for the sabbath rest; but more important, I think, is the fact that not many people really enjoy what God intended us to enjoy on the sabbath, namely, himself. Many professing Christians enjoy sports and television and secular books and magazines and recreation and hobbies and games far more than they enjoy direct interaction with God in his Word or in worship or in reading Christian books or in meditative strolls.

Therefore, inevitably people whose hearts are set more on the pleasures of the world than on the enjoyment of God will feel the sabbath command as a burden not a blessing. This is what John says in 1 John 5:3, “For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome.” The measure of your love for God is the measure of the joy you get in focusing on him on the day of rest. For most people the sabbath command is really a demand to repent. It invites us to enjoy what we don’t enjoy and therefore shows us the evil of hearts, and our need to repent and be changed.

John Piper. (6 Oct 1985). Remember the Sabbath Day to Keep It Holy. https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/remember-the-sabbath-day-to-keep-it-holy. Desiring God.